Below are some questions addressed in the book. You can post your answers and I'll comment on them:
Which is best, eyes on the past, eyes on the present, or eyes on the future?
Are “Never!” or “Always!” ever justified? Don’t be too quick to answer.
Why do so many people earn diplomas from the school of hard knocks?
What must we do to compete with China and India, the economic giants of the future? The answer may sound impossible, but it isn’t.
“What would Jesus do?” has become a standard question. But what did Jesus actually do that has economic implications for these troubled times?
Why does investing in the market and dealing with computers have to be so complicated? See why this question begs the question.
How common is common sense?
Dirty-rotten-rabble-fratch! Say what?
Multi-tasking is a good thing, right? You’ll find some surprises here.
Guilt is good! Or is it? Join the debate.
Regarding anger, which strategy is best for your wellbeing: suppress it or let it all out in the form of verbal or physical aggression?
What’s “smart” and how can you help your children be smart? If you are thinking “it’s IQ and kids are born with it or not” think again.
How come once a winning streak or a losing streak begins, it grows its own legs and can’t be stopped until it runs it course?
Is it reasonable to seek certainty regarding important issues in our lives?
Are young folks’ memories recalled in HD video with digital sound, while older folks recollections are like scratched film with crackling sound and many frames missing? If so, what can older people do?
What can Bob Dylan and Woody Allen and Darwin teach us about close relationships?
Decisions, decisions … are there ways to get better at making them?
I knew it all along! Well maybe not.
How can you leave a lasting legacy? You may be pleasantly surprised.
&%*$!# Does cursing do you or people within earshot any good? Yes and no.
Would you obey an order that is obviously illegal, immoral or both?
Who among 20th century notables will be remembered in 1000 years? You are unlikely to guess this one.
Would you believe that almost every person could find the time and facilities to regularly perform health-promoting exercises?
When deciding how to allocate our tax dollars to the military, what comes first, technologically state-of-the-art planes, missiles, and ships or the safety and long-term health of our troops?
What do medicine’s magic numbers have to do with your health?
Why don’t people help when someone is obviously in dire need? The popular answer is wrong.
Bilateral mouths, independently variable at both ends? What the …?
Questions from video.
1. Hi, I’m Bem Allen and I’ve got some questions for you.
2. If someone, including yourself, tells you not to think about something, can you do it? Don’t think of a white bear! How did you do?
3. Why would anyone try to marry the Eiffel Tower, the Berlin Wall, a hi-fi system or other inanimate things? Strange, huh? Why do they do that?
4. What do women literally look for in a man? It’s not what men think.
5. What is cursing good for? [Stick finger into the chair] Ouch! Dirty rotten rabble fratch! I caught my finger in the chair. …Next question.
6. When you are angry, is it best to blow off steam by, for example, insulting whoever offended you or pounding the walls?
7. Are the Bible and current as well as historic public figures often misquoted?
8. Can you plagiarize someone else’s ideas and be so unaware of the theft that you think the ideas are yours?
9. Do most of us harbor prejudices about which we are not conscious?
10. Are people first and foremost self-interested?
11. Can you find something good in the bad things that have happen to you?
12. What must you do to get respect from others?
13. Can you come up with ways to make yourself seem ten, fifteen, even 20 years younger? Should you?
14. Don’t sweat the small stuff. But what is the small stuff?
15. If you think that someone is lying to you, which behavior of the suspect should you focus on to find out the truth?:
Whether the suspect is maintaining eye contact with you?
Unusual behavior such as hair twirling? or Inability to sit still?
16. Is there any research evidence that people get wiser as they get older?
17. Do people who multi-task a lot, even though they don’t have to, do it because they are good at it?
20. Which of the following modes of transportation is far safer than the others: buses, airplanes, or trains?
21. What can automobile drivers learn from motorcyclists about driving more safely?
22. Who do you think is the smartest, someone who is certain about everything, or someone who is not entirely certain about much of anything?
23. Aw, to be beautiful or handsome. Why do we care so much? Darwin claims to have the answer and it’s not what you think.
24. Old people are cranky! Aw, come on, can’t you take a joke. How does such bigotry come home to haunt those who show it?
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allen.socialpsychology.org
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